One simple shift for you to stop attracting idiots

A shorter blog from me today with a brutal bit of dating advice I think everyone needs to hear sometimes. 

If you want to stop attracting sh*tbags, you need to stop giving them your time and energy. Stop texting them. Stop complaining about them. Stop watching their insta stories. 

👉 Because truthly, who and what you give your energy to matters.

This is one of the biggest things people ignore when it comes to manifesting love. Instead we spend our time focusing on what we don’t want. What we don’t have. What went wrong 

As humans, we’re wired to scan for the negative and we use past experiences as “proof” of what will happen next.

Your brain loves to confirm that these beliefs are correct and true. So we unconsciously look for evidence to support it.

SO…

👀 When you can’t stop feeling resentful towards your ex


👀 Or you’re constantly complaining about dating apps or “all men being the same”…


👀 Or telling yourself you’ll be single forever…


You’ll usually end up proving your worst fears right.

It becomes all you see. All you hear. All you subconsciously look for.

To change this, we need to start focusing on what you do want rather than what you don’t want.


👉 What’s already good in your life.


👉 The love that already exists around you.


👉 And the excitement of what’s yet to come.

There’s a reason my clients get the results they do — they’re willing to do the inner work to align their desires with their actions.

SO, this weekend I want you to complete a little exercise. 

Get up your notes in your phone and every time you find yourself stalking social media, complaining, comparing your situation, or worrying that your ex will meet someone before you, make a little note and repeat the following. 

“Today, I’m choosing to give my energy to what I love and all that I have.” and go on your merry way! 

If you want to shift your energy and start attracting the love you deserve, I’m offering a free discovery call.