Why September is a great time to work on dating
Anyone else feel like summer is for play and September is for purpose? Because that's the shift I'm seeing right now when it comes to dating.
With three months left of the year, there's something about September that feels like a turning point. The days get shorter, the air cools and that back to school energy kicks in.
The Autumn Equinox (22nd September) is literally about balance and stillness — a natural pause to look inward. It’s an invitation for both reflection, getting clear on our direction AND taking action.
And you know what? That energy always spills into dating. September is my busiest (and favourite) time of year because get serious about their love lives.
Here's why:
👉 Summer is messy — holidays, weddings, crazy social events. September slows things down, allowing for more time and space to date.
👉 With three months left of the year, it’s a great time to set new goals, ditch old patterns and try dating intentionally.
👉 Everyone’s in “reset” mode. You’re not the only one reflecting and making changes — the people you’re dating are too (barring the usual ar*ses).
👉 With longer nights and cozy vibes, cuffing season is upon us! Snuggling up on the sofa with someone seems more appealing.
👉 If finding love is a priority, there’s a real “last push” before the year ends (and Auntie Brenda’s Christmas questions creep in 🎄)
So if you’ve been stuck in patterns, or feeling flat about dating — this is your sign to harness that September energy. Reflect. Reset. Rewrite your story.
And if you don’t know where to start, I have two amazing options:
1️⃣ I have spaces for five new clients this month and I'm offering 20% off for those five spaces, and an extra 🍒 on the top for anyone who has worked with me previously! You can book a free call HERE to chat through what's going on and seeing if we would be a good fit to work together. I can send over bespoke times if you need one.
2️⃣ One of my all-time favourite masterclasses — How to Break the Cycle of Toxic or Boring Dating Patterns — is now available for £15.99. This is a great kickstarter to find out exactly why you’re getting certain results and how you can change them! You can find out more HERE.
